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@It's time. This is exactly the heart of the matter. I wonder too, to what extent are we suffering the impact of keeping up with the stereotype of being 'pretty and polished.' It's not just about us as people. I think for some, it extends to how we hold our events as well. At this point, we are the equivalent of a person whose rent is in arrears and electricity cut, but insists of purchasing luxury bags and shoes. For whom are we putting on airs? Sometimes, pretty girls can (and must!) be frugal.